Has depression killed your desire to be fit, healthy
and desirable? Are you simply too overweight or even obese to think
about stepping on an elliptical machine, let alone a scale? Perhaps
you have family members or friends who are clinically obese and are
taking antidepressants to curtail the depression that has eroded the
very fiber of their lives -- or perhaps this describes YOU.
Is your
physical image causing you this depression? Do you desire to be
healthy, happy, and fit for life? Do you dream about the day that you
can FINALLY overcome depression and, in turn, become the fit, happy
and healthy person that you KNOW you can be?
If so, be prepared to
read on and gain wisdom into the life-changing ideas that can catapult
you from a depressed and obese person into a spiritually,
nutritionally and physically transformed version of the REAL YOU.
Depression is commonplace among our society, and antidepressants are
usually prescribed to alleviate the symptoms of depression, but not
the cause. The medical community, try as they might, simply cannot
MAKE the overweight or obese patient lose weight! They just cannot do
it! Oh, they might "suggest" to their patients that it would be a
good idea to lose 12 percent of their body fat so that they could fall
within the healthy guidelines and thus increase their lifespan.
But
can they force a person to not eat at night, to not ingest that third
glass of wine, to not partake of yet another fast-food particle? No,
they cannot. Now add to that equation the overweight or obese AND
depressed patient. Really, can one be found without the other? Much
as they might skirt around the issue, I think not.
In fact, I would
assert that in most cases depression can cause unwanted weight gain
and, in turn, the extra pounds will most certainly cause even more
depression. Guess what? Now the depressed and overweight person is
part of the infinite vacuum of Cause-and-Effect.
Once this cyclone of
despair is entered, the patient/individual must be thrown a life
jacket of sorts. We'll call this life jacket the Physical Health
Solution. Of course the patient will usually refuse said Life jacket
the first time and continue on towards the eye of the cyclone. What
happens next is KEY.
By this point, the patient is simply too overwhelmed, depressed and
filled with self-defeating behaviors that the Life jacket of Health
must be thrown yet again. Only this time, the patient (possibly you!)
will accept it and willingly grab on and HOLD ON for life! Who throws
out these "life jackets"?
People like myself, or perhaps physicians,
even well-meaning friends. I have had numerous clients whose one
phone call to me was their way of "asking" for such a life jacket.
Another client initially came to be "rescued" by way of her husband
making the initial contact.
The important component here was and is
ACTION! When a depressed AND overweight person takes any kind of
action, it is truly a miracle! Why? Because they finally are
acknowledging that they need more than antidepressants -- they need a
physical transformation which inevitably becomes a Life
Transformation!
Likewise, this transformation also results in a
Spiritual Transformation, one which brings the formerly depressed and
overweight individual face-to-face with the issues that really matter,
the self-talk that previously belittled their self-esteem and
destroyed their physical self.
Is this metamorphosis or transformation an easy one? Can it happen
overnight or even in a few weeks? No. In fact, quite the opposite!
Usually when an obese and depressed client begins this change by
improving their diet and engaging in meaningful exercise, they will
often respond by becoming irritable with you and with their family and
friends.
As well, they will see this life change as a chore and will
resent others who "appear" to be in check physically and mentally. In
fact, it is extremely hard work and only the most dedicated will be
successful! At times I have had to act as "Big Brother" on more than
one occasion to keep these types of individuals in check and
accountable for their actions and food choices.
I have had to call
clients every night to make sure they were not eating past a certain
time or to offer words of encouragement and support. More often than
not, it is this support by the Personal Trainer that makes-or-breaks
the relationship between the client and the trainer. That said, the
most important "prescription" I can prescribe to my overweight and
depressed clients is this: DO NOT QUIT.
Erin J. Morgart is the CEO/Owner of BellaFiguravita LLC and a Certified Personal Trainer and Group Exercise Instructor, holding classes for a local military base in Boot Camp, Spinning, Kickboxing and Muscle Pump. Erin currently holds a BA in Psychology and Graduate Studies in Clinical Counseling. She also is an Adjunct Professor and Home-school Co-op Teacher instructing students in Anatomy and Nutrition. Erin holds numerous certifications including ACE and Scirion. She is a member of IHRSA and the Medical Fitness Association (MFA). Currently residing in Virginia Beach, VA, Erin and her Navy Captain spouse and two children will be relocating to Honolulu, Hawaii in July 2007. Her website is www.erinmorgart.com.
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